Thursday, September 16, 2010

Employibiliity

As a teenager some twenty years ago I too nursed an illusion that good education and gainful employment was the only escape from my misery. Being locked in a quadriplegic body was a bother but still there was a kind of foolhardiness that made me think that things will work out. In that age the harsh reality of the world takes time to dawn on you. So, when the elders in the family chided my brother (couple of years younger to me) you should be more responsible,remember you have an invalid brother to take care of, whenever he was his mischievous self. Those days political correctness wasn't in vogue. So it wasn't supposed to be hurtful. Still it made me wonder will I be forever dependent on someone all my life? There was a compound effect of this thought as I was lured to do physiotherapy and other treatments with the promise that it will make me run like others.

So, it was only in my teenage that I became comfortable with my physical being and started thinking of doing something worthwhile in spite of my deformity. After my tenth class I registered for Pre-Degree Course in the Commerce stream as a Private (meaning just study sitting at home and going to college only to write exams) student It wasn't easy but it was the only thing I could do at that time, and with the help my siblings and friends (who shared their notes and those who became my scribes for writing exams) I passed and registered for Degree in same manner.

Now, it is nearly a decade and half that I passed out Degree and have been employed in a MNC (basically working with a computer doing data entry and typing out short letters), and a freelance writer (journalist) for the last ten years or so. My ambition to be a writer had grown due to the fact that it felt like the easiest the job to opt for a person like me (you just needed a typewriter and a bundle of A4 size papers). So, along with formal education I started equiping myself with requisite skills; learning to read with a purpose and writing Letters to Editors, just to prove to myself and others that I had it in me (I could even buy more publications with that).

I realised as I moved forward in life that a job could be the ultimate goal for a so-called normal person and mark of achievement so to speak, but, for a person with disability it presents new barriers and challenges to surmount not just physical but even attitudinal. You have to be socially equiped to deal with new people (my voice still chokes if I have to talk to new person or even my seniors, so an interpreter is always has to be near), maybe a result of growing up in a protected environment of home. Even in the matter of education I maybe one of lucky few who could reach to the level of graduation. And, what about accessible public transport? Whatever I earn virtually goes into reaching my place of work.

So, we have to have an holistic vision while lobbying for the three percent reservation even in the private sector in accordance with the People with disabilities Act.
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I wrote this piece on employment for disabled people for my friend Anita Iyer, who runs a NGO EKansh working in the disbility sector in Pune. My only brief was a 500 words straight from the heart piece about my expiriences as an employed disabled.

Here is an interview of Anita.

13 comments:

Amrita said...

Dear Paresh, I applaud your excellent well written article describing your own feelings and plight as well as speaking on behalf of all disabled people in our country.

Recently a new ministry was inaugrated by the govt. to aid disabled people.Forgot the name.

I also have similar feelings Paresh as a single woman with unseen disabilities . I apear to be normal but I have visiual and hearing disability, so I am misunderstood.


I sometimes envy people like us living in western countries who have such a good health and aid system - they live such comfy lives.

Amrita said...

This is new blog isn 't it.

You have the gift of writing

Slogan Murugan said...

More power to you!

Amrita said...

Dear Paresh I copie d and pasted this post on my blog, without your permission and I linked you too.

Nadwrażliwiec said...

I read Your story Paresh. You must be very strong and wise man. I wish You all the best.

Arts&Disability said...

Hi Paresh,
We saw your great article on Amrita's blog ... and we are now following your blog also Paresh! (And leaving the same comment here as we did on Amrita's)

For this is exactly what we are most interested in developing .... the awareness of Disability... our blog is Arts & Disability http://ArtsandDisability.Blogspot.com
In sharing ... this is how innovation & even some simple things can help us all in our shared world of Disability.

Believe it or not, when my husband became disabled in the 1980's .. there was NO ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) My husband had me & our daughter to SHOUT OUT the inequities....(it was tiring & often very, very frustrating!) but, I know how many disabled (& caregivers) give up or become disenfranchised.

Thank you for continuing to share... it is even in the simple idea of using a double decker inflatable air mattress that I was finally able to quickly raise my husband up to then sit in his wheelchair! Praise the Lord for Innovation!
Love His Sonshine

A.I. said...

:D !!

deeps said...

That sounds like an inspirational story of someone determined to achieve something in life despite the setbacks…
You got a free flowing style too :)

Ash said...

Brilliant, powerful, extremely well-written

Arts&Disability said...

Hi Paresh,
I am leaving you this Google Profile "His Sonshine" to contact me http://www.google.com/profiles/HisSonshine9
(from http://ArtsandDisability.Blogspot.com

I use Google Friend Connect to message people from any site.... sign in, then click on the picture of anyone to message them. I "follow myself" on our blog as Arts&Disability.

Because of spammers, security, etc.. I do not like to publish my e-mail everywhere.

Talk to you soon!
Sincerely, in our Lord
His Sonshine (at Arts & Disability blog)

Anonymous said...

well written...wonder how I am qualified to comment on the quality of writing...but it appeals to the heart and states facts without being overly sentimental...great going as always Paresh...keep writing..
SN

harimohan said...

good paresh an insiders view indeed

Arts&Disability said...

Hi Paresh,

We referenced this great article on our Arts&Disability Blog -

http://ArtsandDisability.blogspot.com
The post is about Disability Awareness around the globe. I often think & pray about all your concerns you shared with us!

Sincerely,
His Sonshine
here is the post link:

http://artsanddisability.blogspot.com/2010/12/disability-awareness-around-globe-our.html